Feel My Pain!
Wednesday, March 31st, 2010I have come to some simple conclusions about pain:
1. People like to share their pain.
2. People like to feel each other’s pain.
3. Most people don’t like people who have no pain.
This article is going to tell you there is a way to rid yourself of any pain on the spot, or, in other words, get yourself unliked by many.
Do you have a problem with being disliked? Or perhaps it’s ‘liked’ and you don’t know it? Let’s examine this issue.
First put some attention on your midline ( that line down the middle-front of your body that extends from the tip of the head to the crotch). The midline is where you can change your world. Not kidding. I learned it from a Grandmaster of Shaolin Kung Fu. He calls it the Yuen Mastery System.
This is not a mysteriously manufactured concept that some spiritual teacher pulled out of his butt to impress us with. It’s just a built-in feature that we all come equipped with, much like all cars come with breaks. I mean how long does it take to learn where the breaks are when you’re driving? It’s not going to take even that long to learn the midline.
I repeat—the midline is where big changes can be made. You start by putting some attention on it when you want to strengthen a weakness( or correct). At some point, though, the energy will just go there of its own accord, because it’s so natural. Enough said.
Back to the issue of being disliked: Here’s how you can tell if you have an issue with being disliked? Does it bother you to think about i? Most think it does, but it might not. Does it bother you to be liked? Most think it doesn’t, but it might. So how do you truly know whether it bothers you to be liked or disliked? It’s not what you think it is. It’s what you feel that tells you the answer. This is where intuition comes into play in a big big way.
If you want to know what truly weakens you, use your intuition. Got any?
Not so fast. Before you answer, I’ll give you a hint—everyone has intuition; few know how to use it on command. Intuition needs to be separated from your logical mind and from your emotions. And that’s where our friend the midline comes in. (Remember the midline?)
Think about separating your logical mind from your intuition. Then pause. Now put some attention on your midline. Voila! You have separated your logical mind from your intuition. Think about separating your intution from your emotions. Pause. Put some attention on your midline. Voila again! Your intuition is separate and able to function independently from both your logical mind and your emotions.
With intuition functioning independently, you are ready to test whether you are one of those people who is bothered by other people’s disliking them. There’s no inbetween. If you are bothered by one person’s dislike of you, then you are bothered. Period.
That’s enough for now. Right now, just go to your midline and put some attention there. Feels different, doesn’t it!




